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We are dedicated to providing a customized home based care service to patients affected by chronic illnesses.

We aim to empower them and their families to get access to the best long term, good quality care and rehabilitation.

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July 29, 2021

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Success Stories

2022

I am Avashna Moodley and I am a stroke veteran. Why veteran … I’ve got the scars , had a meaningful life pretrauma , didn’t have a road map to recovery and definitely had the long service . My stroke happened more than 11 years ago.

My life pre stroke was like any other , we were a family of 4 , me ,my husband and 2 kids who were in primary school. Like most young families , we lived on our own , this meant we didn’t have a village to raise our children. This meant a routine filled schedule .My husband ran his family business . My business was at its peak , I either sold or franchised . I was young ,ambitious and courageous so I decided to franchise my business that I started on my own strength & intelligence . Together with my precious family this was my empire , big or small , it was my success .

I planned out my whole life to never be where I am right now .

I awoke on the morning of Christmas Eve (2011) then quickly realized that I could not move . I tried to get off the bed to walk to the bathroom , to tell my husband that something was wrong – my body was frozen in time . I was so confused .

After almost 11 years , I still can’t believe this day ever happened. It’s like I’m watched a true story movie .

At 41 years old I had a stroke . My empire was turned upside down . There was no warning signs , no time to get my affairs in order , to prepare my kids for their mother who could no longer walk , talk , read , write or recall her life .

For the next 19 days in ICU , I would beg the nurse to call my husband so he can bring my clothes to take me home . I would pull out all the drips in preparation to go home …. My safe place .

The doctors discharged me very reluctantly so that I could see my eldest child off to his first day of High school. Reality hit me , the first night at home , I wanted to go to my new safe place …. The hospital.

I felt alone , like I didn’t belong . My family could only visit me in ICU during set periods of time . They were totally unprepared and unable to read my desperate attempts at communicating through body language and other non-verbal cues . The frustration went both ways and we all soon realized how unprepared we were to tackle the after effects of a stroke .

My head was like a freight train with the brake off. Thoughts and questions rushing around.

I could hear myself speaking clearly to my family and friends but the sound coming from my mouth didn’t match those formed in my mind .

According to my neurologist , I had the worst stroke on the scale – 3 in 1 and today I am grateful to say that I have recovered 99.5% of my physical and mental abilities .

I look at my stroke as I was stripped of my stuff , I had to rebuild , layer by layer. It was almost an initiation of sorts. Through my experience I’ve realized that recovery from any life threatening condition is not something you can not do on your own , because when you are ill you become mentally, physically and emotionally deprived of the fuel you need to recover fully. This was the catalyst in setting up a non profit organization called Coming Home .

Once you stop using your pain to navigate your world , you set your recovery in motion .Meaning your recovery takes place in your mind and then your body will follow .

This is 1st step that me and my fellow stroke veterans show you.

Your doctors play a crucial role , your rehab team play an equally crucial role but they don’t have first hand experience. We talk to your team and help map out your recovery road , we know how you feel, we don’t see your mood changes as stubbornness and laziness. We get you , we get your every need and we know your needs will change cos so has ours . Once you join our Coming Home family , you are never alone and your family is never alone

I view my stroke as a tree under whose shade I did not plan to sit . Nothing grows in the shade .

Do you choose to sit under your stroke tree ? The only power you have , is the power of choice .

You’ve have a meaningful life before and you can have a meaningful life now .

It’s your choice